The other day I invited my sponsor
over to watch the Miami Heat-Boston Celtics game. Him being from the east coast
and an avid Celtics fan, I knew I had my hands full when inviting him over. If
you know anything about me, I am very passionate about my teams. I’m very
passionate with everything I do. Sitting down and watching a game is such an
amazing feeling; at least before the game begins.
See, if you’re anything like me
then yelling at the TV when things don’t go my team’s way is the norm thing to
do. I need to express myself vocally and in the process be as loud as possible. It
includes me jumping out of my seat and pointing at my TV or pacing back and
forth in the living room.
The Celtics were up by 17 and I had
this feeling in my gut that Miami would prevail again. I had little doubt they
would pull off the victory. That might be my biased feeling but I never give up
on my teams (well I would if I were a Clippers fan.) At this moment one of my
roommates bet me $10 that Boston would end up winning. I knew he was thinking
he was pulling a fast one on me solely because if you know nothing about the
Miami Heat then a 17 point lead with 2 quarters to go looks like an
insurmountable lead. Little did he know that the Heat are a force to be
reckoned with in the final 2 quarters of any game.
My gut feeling told me to take the
bet and it also told me that the Miami Heat were going to pull this one out. I
took the bet and all of a sudden an extreme sense of anxiety overwhelmed me. I
was already feeling apprehensive because of the possibility that their 22-game
winning streak was in jeopardy. Now the only money I had in my pocket was on
the line too.
In my active addiction, I never
went with my gut feeling. I would go on what my stinking thinking told me to
do. For example, when I was in Austin, TX at Austin Recovery Center I was
presented with a situation that I knew would get me discharged. I was sitting
back playing the guitar and all of a sudden there is a knock on the window.
Earlier in the night, my roommate and I had deviously conjured up a plan to
sneak into the girl’s dormitory across campus. Recovery was working in my life
because before we put the plan in motion, we ran the idea by our other rehab
buddies. They told us, “Don’t do it. You will get kicked out.” I would never
run ideas by anyone else because I knew they would get shot down. And then
someone else would know about the crazy shit that I was getting myself into.
Anyway, we decide to not sneak over
there in spite of our self-will telling us to do otherwise. When I heard the
knock I knew exactly what and who it was. My stomach immediately went into
knots and my entire body sort of went into panic mode. I knew I was about to be
faced with a dilemma that would change my current course of action. If only I
would have listened to my gut feeling.
Long story short, we ended up
sneaking over there and after spending way too much time over there, we were
caught. Not only were we caught, but we were discharged the following
afternoon. My gut feeling told me not to do it but I acted on it anyways. This happened
frequently in my addiction because heroin was the guiding force in all of my
actions. It wasn’t me. It wasn’t Cameron. I don’t have to be defined by what I
did in my addiction but I do have to take responsibility for it. I am not
responsible for addiction but I am responsible for my recovery.
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